Neurodivergence
You Don’t Need a Label to Be Valid
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Whether you’re:
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Recently diagnosed
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Exploring your identity
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Or just noticing that “something feels different”
You’re allowed to understand your brain, your patterns, and your needs.
You’re allowed to take up space, even without a formal diagnosis.
Late or Self-Diagnosed? You’re Not Alone.
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Many people spend decades masking - learning to “act normal” while feeling like something is off underneath.
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This is especially common for:
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Women and AFAB (assigned female at birth) people
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People of colour
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Those raised in high-demand or dismissive environments
You don’t need a professional to give you permission to explore your own experience.
And you’re not “faking it” if you resonate deeply.
Sensory Overload & Emotional Dysregulation
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Neurodivergent folks often feel:
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Too much (too loud, too sensitive, too emotional)
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Or completely shut down
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You might go from fine to flooded in moments. That’s not weakness.
That’s a nervous system asking for care, not criticism.
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Noise-reduction or dim-light strategies
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Soothing textures, warmth, or pressure
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Breathwork and grounding to regulate
Advocating for Yourself — With or Without Diagnosis
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You don’t need to prove your struggles to deserve accommodations.
You don’t need to wait for a diagnosis to start meeting your needs.
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You are allowed to say:
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“I work best with clear instructions.”
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“I need recovery time after social events.”
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“Bright lights/sounds make it harder for me to focus.”
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Explore our Advocacy Script collection →
Boundary-setting resources for workplace and family →
You Are Not Broken
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You’re not too much. You’re not lazy. You’re not dramatic.
You’re not “making excuses.”
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You’re navigating a world not built for your brain
and still showing up. That’s resilience.